Very little shocks me, so when the phone rang at 10 something last night, the number looked familiar...I thought it was BJ for a split second but went back to watching tv.
Well, lo and behold, it was him. Huh? I'm puzzled. The voicemail he left was as if we talked the day before....not last friggin' May (guys are good for that ish). Mind you, I didn't get a V Day call last year and we were on speaking terms. I literally felt sick on the stomach...
The timing of this is crazy considering I really just gave up on our friendship being rekindled because it wasn't in my hands. I've met some nice guys recently and opened my heart to starting anew. Truth be told, I finally removed any residual anger I had after a comment Steve Harvey made Friday about how men tend not to commit if they don't have all their ish in order, makes perfect sense....you'd think I would have considered this back then, but spoiled me not getting what I wanted overshadowed the reality of his situation.
So, now I'm not sure what's up. I can't really say I'm curious...just puzzled as hell. He's not one for mind games, so I think it's genuine. What's a girl to do? I don't hold grudges, but only a fool would fully accept this without an explanation. I don't even know if that's why he called, but we'll see...later...much later...
Ughhh!
That doesn't surprise me one bit, my friends and always say after a break up I'm sure he will call again.
ReplyDeleteAnd to be honest they have, at least for me and my friends. I think that when you don't really do anything wrong they do. They flake for so many reasons.
Its funny you get all these explination from men about why they don't and I tend to look at when they do. They do.
Oh well I say let by gones be by gones. Ask for an explination whatever. There's a guy that I cut off once because he didn't seem to be taking me a seriously as I thought. A year later he called back. My rule with him was that he needed to show the effort I was no longer making the effort. If he said lets get together I would wait for him to call and make the date. I never called him always waited for him to call and still do. He's nice to hang with so that's the value I assign to him some one to hang with not count on...anyway I am sure you will know what to do with the BJ situation. You know you! Anyway sorry for the ramble.
-OG
Steve Havey said that?
ReplyDeleteI have to agree with him there.
As for dude, it wont hurt to chit chat, now you know better.
You're right, OG and Mike. I'll give an inch as warranted.
ReplyDeleteYou really don't have to do anything...The ball is in his court.
ReplyDeleteIf he calls back though..See what it is that he wants.
It is nice to have things in order before you committ...Like a Job,
some cash in the bank and on hand...and some career ,educational or other goals in play..That goes for everybody-male and female..It just makes life
easier.
I like that "You know You!"
ReplyDeleteI say follow your intuition. One can usual feel out any situation f they are following their intuition and not their heart.
Works for me anyway!
Walk forward cautiously :) Good Luck
ReplyDeleteYou know how I think its just weird...
ReplyDeleteYeah...you know better.....!!!!!!
ReplyDeleteLucikly you don’t have to do a thing :) just wait and see if he calls again.
ReplyDeleteMen are funny creatures sometimes
I hope you had a good day.
You know, sometimes I think guys have like a sixth sense and they know just when to make that phone call. You've accepted things for what they are, ready to start fresh, and then they dial your number.
ReplyDeleteWhatever happens, I hope it works out in your favor.
hey girl!
ReplyDeleteI have been in that situation so many times...but you have to follow your intuition on this one.
ReplyDeleteMen!
ReplyDelete(I love SteveHarvey!)