1.19.2009

A Moment of Reflection

Not to put a damper on this historic time, but it means a great deal to me for many reasons other than President Obama himself. On a high level, his presidency represents different things to everyone.

My parents were Depression-era babies. Back in the day when D.C. wasn’t all glitz and glam, but many poor residents lived in houses with dirt floors and some even in the long forgotten alleys/tenements. My mom was born in a house a stone's throw from the U.S. Capitol. As a child, I wonder if she ever imagined a black man holding the seat of president. Dad beamed with pride when he told the fascinating stories of traveling the world as a young Marine (Semper Fi!). Our neighbors gave him the nickname "Mayor of Fifth Street" as a joke, but I wonder what he could have done with a college education and ability to select the career path of his choice.

I feel blessed to have experienced different eras through my parent’s recollections of an age we’ll never witness again. When there were iceboxes, milkmen, streetcars, and jammin' concerts at the Lincoln and Howard theaters.

There were many turbulent and discouraging times also. When the big department stores in downtown D.C. would allow blacks to purchase items…but they could not try them on in the store. Many parts of D.C. were just as segregated as the deep South.

I wonder how they truly felt as the glimmer of hope Dr. King represented was dashed as parts of the city burned upon news of his assassination. All this lead to the subsequent demise of the community as they knew it.

I also wonder if the masses of people who’ve traveled to witness history know (or care) that not only did slaves build the White House and the Capitol, but were bought and sold on the land upon which the National Archives, Supreme Court and other landmarks.

I’m quite sure there are people who say ‘get over it’ and ‘that was the past’, but to them I give the one finger salute. Haven’t we done that long enough? Not to dig up the ugly past, but to not forget the strength and resolve of Black Americans.

Change is great, but it pains me to see superficial glamour replace the true heart of the city. I think we're quick to get caught up in the hype, but it’s vital to look at the total picture…the sacrifice and hard road that lead to this being possible in the first place.

My parents made great strides in their lives and I appreciate their sharing such a rich history with me, but I can’t help but wonder what they would’ve accomplished if they were afforded the same opportunities available to me. I also wonder if they would even recognize the supposed ‘new and improved’ D.C.

How I wish they were alive to witness this time, not because of Obama but of the possibilities he represents. I wonder...

That said…get the partay started!

13 points of view:

  1. I think many of us have been afforded greater opportunities than some of our parents and I believe that they wouldn't have it any other way. Now we just need to take advantage of them. Tomorrow can be a new beginning for all of us as individuals as well as a country.
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  2. How true, Miles. I appreciate your perspective :).
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  3. We will always have it better than our parents. Things our parents could not do, we do now. And it will be like that for our children. Things we cannot do/see/experience...they will have the opportunity too. I want that for my children. As I get to see the first black President, I want them to see the first female president or Hispanic president.


    Thinking about tomorrow tears me up. For eight years we have spent struggling underneath a President who catered to upper class America. Its about damn time A President will help us out.

    I am so proud that tomorrow will be the first day of the next for years and I wouldnt have wanted anyone else besides Obama to do the leading.


    OBAMA!
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  4. Well Written, Well said my friend.
    My parents tell simular stories.
    I too wish they both were alive to see this.
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  5. Their achievement was you, and you get to celebrate for them.
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  6. Yep, I feel ya, Stef. It can only get better and this opens the door for true equal opportunity. Hugs!
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    Thanks so much, Keith!!!
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    Wow, Mike, you don't know how much this statement touched my heart. I appreciate you!!!
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  7. This was a great post! Most people have forgotten DC's history in the past and even the present issues that it faces. There is no quick solution to the ills of the world, let alone DC. What worried me throughout these past few days is the 'party' mentality. I'd hope at least 1% of those people who drunk & ate to Obama's win, also went out and did something on yesterdays Day of Service.
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  8. You got that right, FBC. I wonder too, not to mention the commercialism going on. Should be interesting. Have a great week, girlie!
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  9. I really feel you on this, ma, and I know people in my family have lived thru the same circumstances as you described. Unless they were people who lived in a world of pipe-dramas (& they weren't!), they could have never foreseen the events that are happening now. It's just too BIG a leap of imagination, considering how HARD they had it back then.

    As far as the glamorization, This This Too Shall Pass. Some of that seems unavoidable as they are young, good-looking people and that tends to attract glamor.


    Barack is a serious enough thinker and doer not to allow all that get in the way of the work that needs to be done. His speech today outlined his intents. The media will paint them any way it wants, but as long as THEY (he and Michelle) know who they are & remain true, the rest of the artifice surrounding them won't matter.

    Today I am embracing the fact that history has finally smiled upon us, and the world is filled w/ the prospects of whole new era of positive potential.


    Snatch JOY!

    One.

    p.s. thanks so much for the mad lovely words you left on my Natal Day.
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  10. Lin, I'm glad our paths crossed :-). I 'ppreciate ya!
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  11. Oh hun I didn’t realise your parents are not around to see these times, they are watching though.

    It is important to remember the past, I hate people that always say forget about it, you are right its hasnt always been glitz and glam! We no do have greater opportunities than our parents.

    We have been through so much we have to tell our children and our children's children. Because of what our ancestors went through we have paved the way (black people worldwide)

    Thanks for the reminder and yes lets party. You want some champagne??
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  12. Hechts - Woodward & Lothrop.

    I wonder how your spending habits are since your folks came up during the Depression.

    Most Depression era folks and offspring are very frugal and thoughtful with money.

    The most glaring example that I can think of is Warren Buffett who was also a baby during these times.

    Ignore the headlines.

    What we are going through today economically is nowhere NEAR the scope of the Great Depression.
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  13. Thanks Angel. I know they're smiling from above. And, I never turn down a good glass of the bubbly :).
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    You know, it's funny, Kofi. They were just the opposite. I guess because they were relatively young when the Depression was winding down. you're right now way near that and, prayerfully, never will be.
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